Battered Character Have you ever had someone question your character? It is not unusual to have had that happen at some point during your life. I was once accused of cheating […]
Author Archives: Mark Fincher
Feeling Oppressed Who is oppressing you? Do you really feel oppressed? What does it mean? I particularly like the Cambridge Dictionary definition. governed in an unfair and cruel way and […]
Perfectionism I was once perfect. It happened for a moment, but I tried to hold on to it and it destroyed the effect. Then there was the time that I […]
Seeking Fun? How often have you said to yourself that you want more fun in life? It seems hard at times to fit fun into life, but without it, what […]
Things Suck Please excuse the rude language, but sometimes things just suck. Think about the idea implied. You feel drained when things are just not right. You feel life sucked out […]
Success I used to worry about success. I drove myself to be “successful” among my peers. The only problem was that I never bothered to define what success meant to me. […]
Romance What does that word mean to you? This is not a post about romance in marriage, at least directly. I think that too often we forget to have romance […]
Anger Is it healthy to have anger? For that matter, is it OK to be sad, disappointed, cold, unwilling, embarrassed, or scared? If it is not acceptable, why do those […]
Think. Too often I do that. Yes, too often I think and it does harm. It harms me and it harms my relationships. You might be asking how it hurts […]
As a child, I would often lash out at others and in the process, I ended up hurting them. That occurred at both a physical and emotional level. In the […]